Funeral Sandwiches Recipe - Grilled Cheese Social (2024)

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Funeral sandwiches are one of my favorite southern specialties. Salty ham, nutty swiss cheese, and a tangy dijon brown sugar butter glaze is baked into fluffy Hawaiian rolls. They're basically upgraded ham and cheese sliders on hawaiian rolls with a brown sugar dijon caramelized crust and they're completely irresistible!

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  • What areFuneral Sandwiches
  • How to make Ham and Cheese Sliders with Brown Sugar Dijon Glaze
  • Frequently Asked Questions
  • What to pair them with
  • Save these for later
  • Recipe

What areFuneral Sandwiches

So what are funeral sandwiches? Well they're basically Southern ham and cheese sliders that are baked in a brown sugar dijon sauce.

When the sauce bakes, it caramelizes into a sweet and tangy crust that's out of this world.

The sandwiches are hard to explain. They're sort of wet, sort of crispy but they're so dang addicting that you can't eat just one.

Oh, and you definitely don't need a funeral to make these sandwiches! They just call them that because they were once laid out for church spreads during funerals.

You might also notice that the majority of funeral roll recipes require you to soak them overnight.

But with this recipe, you only have to soak them for one hour... or up to 24 hours.

This flexibility means that the funeral rolls can be prepped last minute or a day ahead of time which is great for party prepping.

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Ingredients & Substitutions:

  • Salty Butter - Regular butter works just fine - just add a pinch of salt. Def don't use margarine though as it creates a more soggy sandwich since the spread is mostly water.
  • Brown Sugar - Light or dark brown sugar works perfectly!
  • Dijon Mustard - I like to use a tangy dijon mustard but honey mustard and grainy mustards also work.
  • Worcestershire sauce - There is no substitution for Worcestershire sauce... If you absolutely had to, I guess you could use soy sauce.
  • Hawaiian rolls - Any type of small roll will work - think parker house, pretzel, etc! But Hawaiian is my go-to!
  • Ham - You can use any sliced ham you want. Virginia, honey, easter ham - you name it!
  • Swiss Cheese - Swiss is def the most classic choice but you could also use white cheddar, havarti, or even provolone.
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How to make Ham and Cheese Sliders with Brown Sugar Dijon Glaze

Making funeral sandwiches is super easy!

The only thing you need to take into consideration is how much time you have.

This recipe requires at least one hour of marination if you're in a hurry.

If you have more time, even better! You can also soak them overnight for the same delicious results.

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To begin, whisk together melted butter, brown sugar, dijon, and Worcestershire.

Next, you'll want to grease a baking dish and pour about 3-4 tablespoon of the sauce mixture into the bottom of the pan - just enough to coat the bottom of the pan.

Next, split the Hawaiian rolls in half and then pull them apart.

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Place the bottom half of each bun in the baking sheet.

Then, layer on half of the cheese, all of the ham, and then the remaining half of cheese.

Place the upper half of the buns on top and drizzle with the remaining brown sugar dijon sauce on top.

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Just make sure you coat the bread equally and evenly!

If you'd like to use the optional poppy seeds, be sure to sprinkle them on at this point.

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Now tightly wrap the buns with plastic wrap and refrigerate at least one hour up to overnight.

When you're ready to bake, preheat your oven to 350F degrees and unwrap the buns.

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Place the funeral sandwiches in the oven for 15-20 minutes or until the top is golden brown and the center has heated through.

The funeral rolls will be crispy yet slightly soggy in the best way possible!

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Frequently Asked Questions

Why are they called funeral sandwiches?

They're called Funeral Sandwiches because they were traditionally served after a funeral at the church memorial service.

Can I make them ahead of time or do funeral sandwiches have to sit overnight?

Most of the funeral roll recipes require the buns to soak overnight but with my hack (bringing the brown sugar dijon sauce to a boil) you don't have to wait and can make them right away.

How do you keep funeral sandwiches from getting soggy?

To be honest, these are kind of iconic because they are slightly soggy and wet -- that's what makes them good! If you like them on the dryer side, don't put as much sauce on the bottom of the pan. This will keep the bottoms crisp while the top caramelizes as it cooks.

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What to pair them with

Funeral sandwiches are also a great way to use up leftovers from my crock pot brown sugar pineapple ham!

As for sides, I recommend serving them with some of this perfect white cheddar mac and cheese, instant pot black eyed peas, or this southern pimento cheese potato salad!

If you want more old school appetizer recipes, make these Cream Cheese Sausage Balls, thesecajun deviled eggs, ormydried beef cheese ball!

Or if you'd like another amazing ham sandwich recipe, try this English Ploughmans Sandwich or this Eggslu*t Breakfast Sandwich!

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Funeral Sandwiches

Funeral sandwiches are one of my favorite southern specialties. Salty ham, nutty swiss cheese, and a tangy dijon brown sugar butter glaze is baked into fluffy Hawaiian rolls. They're basically upgraded ham and cheese sliders with a brown sugar dijon caramelized crust and they're completely irresistible!

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Prep Time 10 minutes mins

Cook Time 15 minutes mins

Course Appetizer, Breakfast, brunch, sandwich

Cuisine American, southern

Servings 4 people

Ingredients

Brown Sugar Dijon Sauce

Funeral Rolls

  • 1 pack Hawaiian rolls (12 rolls)
  • ¾ lb Virginia Ham sliced thin
  • ½ lb Swiss Cheese sliced thin
  • Poppy Seeds optional

Instructions

Brown Sugar Dijon Sauce

  • In a small bowl, whisk together melted butter, brown sugar, dijon mustard and worcestershire sauce and set aside.

  • OR if you don't have time to marinate the sandwiches in the sauce (1 hour up to overnight is recommended), then bring this mixture to a quick simmer in a pot. This will help the sauce caramelize onto the bread faster. This way, there is no waiting required.

Funeral Rolls

  • Grease a baking pan and pour in enough of the brown sugar dijon sauce to coat the bottom of the pan; about 3-4 tbsp.

  • Split the rolls down the middle and pull them apart. Line the pan with the bottom portion of the buns.

  • Evenly lay half of the swiss cheese across the bottom buns, then add the ham, and the remaining cheese.

  • Put the upper half of the buns on top and pour the remaining brown sugar dijon sauce on top - making sure to coat and soak each bun.

  • If you’d like to add poppy seeds, lightly sprinkle some on top.

  • Cover tightly with plastic wrap and refrigerate for at least 1 hour and up to 24 hours. Or place them immediately in the oven if you simmered the sauce on the stovetop.

  • When ready to bake, preheat the oven to 350F degrees and bake uncovered for 15-20 minutes or until the top is golden brown and the cheese has melted.

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Keyword brown sugar, dijon, ham, swiss cheese

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FAQs

Why are funeral sandwiches so good? ›

The goal of the funeral sandwich is to serve a big group of people in a short period of time and to provide them with something delicious and filling. Funeral sandwiches are a straightforward appetizer that can be served hot or cold. They're reliable and simple to prepare—and they're a hit with adults and kids alike.

What can I add to grilled cheese to make it better? ›

It doesn't have to be fancy or anything wild – just a little bit of something extra to push a grilled cheese to greatness.
  1. 1 of 20. Apples. Fairfax Media via Getty Images. ...
  2. 2 of 20. Avocado. ...
  3. 3 of 20. Bacon. ...
  4. 4 of 20. Bacon jam. ...
  5. 5 of 20. Caramelized onions. ...
  6. 6 of 20. Herbs. ...
  7. 7 of 20. Honey. ...
  8. 8 of 20. Kimchi.
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What is the history of funeral sandwiches? ›

Funeral sandwiches get their name because, very simply, they are a type of sandwich often served at funerals. Showering the family of the recently deceased with food gifts is a Southern tradition that dates back to as early as 1779.

What two cheeses are best for grilled cheese? ›

Sharp cheddar, Gouda, Fontina, Monterey Jack, Gruyere, Pepper Jack, and brie are all good options. The amount of cheese you use will depend on the size of your bread. I love sharp Cheddar, Monterey Jack, and Gouda together.

What is the best food to serve at a funeral? ›

Our Top 5 Recommended Foods for a Funeral Reception
  • Casseroles. These easily reheat and can provide comfort to those who lost a loved one. ...
  • Finger foods. These can be great if you are serving a small group, as they're easy to prepare. ...
  • Meat and cheese trays. ...
  • Fruit and vegetable trays. ...
  • Salads.

What food is usually served at a funeral? ›

Some of the most well-loved dishes include:
  • Bread and dinner rolls.
  • Casseroles such as meatball casserole and tuna casserole.
  • Funeral potatoes, scalloped potatoes, and other funeral potato recipes.
  • Mac and cheese.
  • Deviled Eggs.
  • Cookies, cake, and apple pie.
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How to spice up a grilled cheese sandwich? ›

Fruity additions are practically limitless: melons with prosciutto and fontina cheese, peaches with gruyere, pears and melty Brie, strawberries and sharp cheddar. These sophisticated flavor combos will have the grown-ups cheering for more. Check out this Avocado and Strawberry Grilled Cheese for inspiration.

Which bread is best for grilled cheese? ›

Sandwich bread tends to be soft and light, which is perfect for a grilled cheese. Don't limit yourself to white bread — whole-wheat, multigrain, oatmeal, and potato bread all make great grilled cheeses.

What's in the death sandwich? ›

The sandwich is a foot long, white bread sub, with ham, meatballs and sauce.

Why is it called a funeral sandwich? ›

They're called Funeral Sandwiches because they were traditionally served after a funeral at the church memorial service.

What is a funeral lunch called? ›

A funeral reception luncheon, or funeral repast, is a gathering for a meal after the funeral service. The person who hosts the luncheon will decide with the family to hold the event at a restaurant, banquet hall, or someone's home.

Is mayo or butter better for grilled cheese? ›

Butter goes in the pan not on the bread. To ensure golden (not burned) toastiness, the exterior of the sandwich should be slicked with mayonnaise, which has a higher smoke point and possesses the combined browning power of oil and egg yolks.

Should I toast my bread before making grilled cheese? ›

For the best results, toast your bread first. A quick toast will help your bread develop the golden edges and luscious crisp that you're after. It'll also help prevent the bread from getting soggy, no matter how many fillings you add.

Should you butter both sides of bread for grilled cheese? ›

The basic recipe is bread buttered on the outside with one or two slices of the eponymous American pasteurized processed cheese food (those individual wrapped orange slices). The emotional cost to experiment is low; try it buttered on all sides; you may or may not like the taste or feel of the extra fat inside.

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